What Professor Shani is imposing upon your world is the struggle with old, brittle, rigid, fear-based thinking of an older generation.
But if you accept that the relationship is here to make you conscious instead of happy, then the relationship will offer you salvation, and you will be aligning yourself with the higher consciousness that wants to be born into this world.
"It would be a wondrous thing for each of you to examine the belief structures that you hold. The most reliable method of estimating marriages is to confirm the number of deep horizontal lines on the edge of the palm, immediately underneath the pinkie finger, on the native 's dominant hand.
For both husbands and wives, Guru in yuvatibhava indicates the potential for multiple marriages.
Guru occupying 7th-from-Chandra is a likely pointer toward multiple marriages.
"Come, let's away to prison: We two alone will sing like birds i' the cage: When thou dost ask me blessing, I'll kneel down, And ask of thee forgiveness: so we'll live, And pray, and sing, and tell old tales, and laugh At gilded butterflies." Never before have relationships been as problematic and conflict ridden as they are now.
As you may continue to pursue the goal of salvation through a relationship, you will be disillusioned again and again.You are in a good position to make a mature choice of mate now, unlike many who are forced to marry by parents of an earlier generational viewpoint.Earlier generations carried beliefs about fertility and lifespan which are now outdated.However, for avowals after age 30, the marriage statistics become much more biased toward longevity of the union.That is because people who marry in their 30's and 40's know themselves, they have substantial work experience, they can manage their time, they understand what it takes to build a relationship, and ideally they have got some wild times already enjoyed before committing to the sober work of mortgage-paying and parenting.Educated, healthy women now regularly live active lives of 10 decades duration and children's health is seen to depend not on the mother's age but rather on the quality of prenatal and early childhood medical care.