The less mistakes, the more positive the relationship. I’ve been coaching men and women to date Borderlines successfully for years. They know exactly how to bait you in to arguments and fights. Nearly everything they say and do around you is a test in some subconscious way.
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And more often than not, you aren’t rewarded for your hard work and effort that you put into the relationship.
It sucks, but this is usually what happens to those who take up the sword and become the Knight in Shining Armor.
You can’t help but want to love them despite their flaws. There’s nothing wrong with loving someone who has BPD or Bipolar.
So you end up bending your rules, going out of your way to make their lives happy.
I believe you’ll find the book useful for your situation. Arming yourself with the knowledge of what Borderlines and Bipolar individuals want in a relationship will set you on a new path. I’m not a big fan of the mainstream media, which includes the relationship advice you find on these big branded websites.
But I do read them from time to time so I can see what kind of crap they’re preaching to you…Or in the worst case, your partner has both BPD and Bipolar (which is exactly what my first long-term girlfriend was dealing with, along with anxiety attacks).I’ve also recorded a video on Youtube going over this article along with some additional insights.Which is what brings me to my next point: There are many, many common mistakes that men and women make which all but guarantee the death of the relationship. But rest assured, it WILL eventually die a slow, slow death. Which then brings you on the internet looking for help in these BPD/Bipolar relationships.I dated several Borderline women in my 20’s due to the type of upbringing I had. My type of upbringing was very conservative, very needy and codependent, very “put others first before yourself” type of childhood.This is absolutely why men and women are more confused and frustrated than ever before.