I’d like to start off with one of my most important and helpful texting tools . Some dating coaches wouldn’t recommend doing this, but I disagree.
A proper smiley face can put more meaning to something you text.
Instead, use it rather sparingly and interchangeably with the smiley faces. Otherwise, you’ll come off as trying too hard to be funny and look weak.
Really before even thinking about what to text a girl, timing is perhaps the most import part of any good text game.
During this time, she’ll wonder what you’re doing, why you’re not like all those other guys she talks to, and why you aren’t texting her right away. I used to frequently fall into the trap many people these days fall into, and that is that we keep our cell phones with us at all times.
We become obsessed with checking our phones every couple of minutes, and we don’t take control of our lives.
For example, if you want to tease a girl but not come across as being too serious, you can say something like “Julie! It’s been forever since I’ve seen you :)” A text like this shows her that you’re inquiring about her and would like to know where she’s been lately. She’s so much more likely to reply to the first as opposed to the second, which is a little too pressing.
At the same time, though, you’re making a bit of a joke about her not being around, so it’s a good way to ask something semi-seriously while at the same time coming across as playful. Using “lol” is a similar thing I like to do and recommend.
But when you keep it in, it shows that you’re just making a joke out of something boring. It’s so much easier to come up with your own as this has no context for a real conversation and would be useless if you tried to duplicate it.
Just try to understand the usefulness of “lol” here and there. Putting “lol” into every sentence, or even every few sentences, makes you look like a half-assed, not-so-funny, would-be comedian!
(It’s either this, or they just want to appear busy and will take their time in replying.) This is okay. (You also come off as a bit creepy, like you were just staring at your phone like some kind of Fatal Attraction-type character, just waiting for her to answer you, and when she did, you answered her right away.) I’m telling you right now that, if you do anything resembling this, you will totally creep the woman out. Now I take my time in responding to a woman, and by doing so, I create intrigue and interest as well as more attraction. A simple rule is to take as long (if not longer) to reply to her texts as she takes to reply to yours.