Now it’s time to give you a step-by-step breakdown of the process for picking up a girl. In the time it takes to think up a clever pickup line, you’ll probably miss the golden opportunity to approach. An example of a situational opener (if it’s cold outside) would be saying something like “Where did you get that amazing coat? The aim of the opener is simply is simply to grab her attention. Start with “Excuse me” if you approach a girl in the daytime. You’ll be able to tell in a matter of seconds if your personalities click.We’ll start with the approach and end with how you exchanging numbers. If you can’t think of anything to say on the spot, a simple “Hey” or “Hey, hows it going? Women don’t expect to be chatted up during their daily routines. So there is no need to straight up interogate a girl on her hobbies and interests in the hope of finding a connection.
And above all make sure your compliment is non creepy or overtly sexual. Telling a girl you think she’d look sexy in a bikini is a little overboard.
Same goes for saying you couldn’t help but notice her tits. Once you can read the cues of interest women subconsciously put out there, you can start to escalate sexually.
Now that you have an easy to follow step-by-step method, it’s time to breakdown the 7 common situations you’re likely to encounter when picking up girls.
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If you appear confident in your approach and be direct with your intentions you’ll have no problem picking up girls. Chatting up girls can be the most nerve racking experiences imaginable. Confidence is largely perceived non verbally, so it’s important you communicate this through your body language and voice tonality. It will only make a girl anxious and wanting to end the conversation. Whether you’re meeting a girl or going in for the kiss, YOU have to be the one pulling the trigger. You must be bold and prepared to put your neck on the line for women.
And with this you’ve got to expect to be rejected from time to time. But it’s how you handle rejection that will define your success with picking up women.
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Before we jump straight into the 7 situations, I’ll give you my step-by-step method for picking up girls.
It’s so simple you can start putting it into action immediately.
But first things first, it’s important we cover the core principles of pickup that form the foundation to all of this. If you prefer video learning we recommend this video: (It’s the best way to master pickup in a short space of time) Ok lets get started! Unless you want to get rudely rejected, start with welcoming environments that allow natural conversation to flow – cafes, bars, clubs, house parties, sports events, and shopping centres are all great locations to find women to talk to. If you can pick up girls in bars and clubs there’s no reason you can’t get a girls number whilst ordering a flat white on your morning commute to work.
Backhanded compliments or ‘negging’ a girl also works well (like the nose piercing example above).