This is a bit of a subconscious thing with men, and although we think we want to spend the night at your place after a first date, in the cold light of the morning after we will be relieved that it didn’t happen.
Forget Facebook – If you want to let your friends know how much you loved that latte on the way to work this morning, or share a photo of the most adorable kitten playing a guitar that’s well and good.
If your date becomes your boyfriend then there will be plenty of opportunities for both of you to let your hair down.
But a guy will most likely be a little scared if you knock back a few shots before dinner.
But do you really want a guy you just met to see all those old photos you’ve been tagged in?
Do you really want him to know why your boss upset you so much today or how much weight you want to lose this year?
Retain a bit of mystery and avoid sending him a friend request until you’ve got to know each other better. Pay attention to the introductions – We guys are extremely territorial (even though we may not know it) and once we’ve come to the conclusion that this is the woman we want, we’ll start saying things like “This is my girlfriend, Sarah”.
Once he has started calling you his girlfriend, babe, woman, or even his other half, he won’t stop.
Now you’re armed with these tips you should be feeling a little more confident about embarking on the roller coaster ride that is the dating game but it’s worth remembering (and here’s the twist) that not all guys are the same.
A bad relationship you had in the past should stay exactly there, in the past. So, how many of the above tips will be helpful to you on your next date?
Figuring out what is going on in a guy’s mind in the first few weeks of dating would really help a woman feel more assured, knowing that she is in control of the situation.
Here are a few tips to get you moving in the right direction.
Yes, you should never pretend to be someone that you’re not, but a girl might like to see that you take pride in your appearance.