You can go out with other guys so long as they don't sabotage your efforts. You should also consider being more social in general so you can make friends with more guys who are good with women.
Hangout with people you usually don't, guys from work, school, friends of friends, etc... Any woman who is being honest will back me up on this, It's about who you are, who she perceives you to be.
So many guys focus all their energy on picking up women when they go out, that they forget to have a good time.
I'll explain how to meet them without sweating them in a sec.
I cannot emphasize enough the importance of dressing well, and having your look together.
If you are an older guy in a fancy suit they might not be digging your style at the young scenester bar. There are lots of attractive women at bars that want to hook up with you. Girls from bars/clubs are much more likely to flake on you than girls you meet under other circumstances.
The women there are more interested in the metro sexual guys with beards and scarves. If you meet a girl you like at a bar try to keep the interaction going.
The only way to avoid an online romance scam is to be aware of their occurrences and also to know how to spot them before they begin.
by Jake Vandenhoff If you go to a popular bar or club on a Friday or Saturday night it's going to be packed full of 18-35 year old women.
Most of them will be single, many will be good-looking, and they will be in all states of drunkenness. Here are 5 big things you can do to be more successful with bringing home women from bars and clubs...
Even better, a decent percentage of these girls will be open to going home with you if you know what you are doing! If you want to get better at meeting women at bars/clubs it's important to enjoy going out, without worrying about trying to bring somebody home.
Again, if you go out and no women look at you, smile at you or talk to you, it's time to look at the other things that you are doing... I might go to those places for fun, and I could possibly find someone I'd like there, but those places don't typically cater to the demographic I'm interested in.
It also helps to be aware of what type of women are going to be feeling you. and this is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT: Only get a woman's number in a bar as a last resort, because she has to go with her friends or whatever.
You won't believe how much female attention you will get just by tweaking your look a little.