(And, yah, I know what you’re thinking…he’s looking for stimulation there too.) If you doubt this, it might help you to know that in study after study men site “passion, compassion or caring” among the primary reasons they were attracted to their wife or partner. ________.” The answers to “because” almost always come from your feminine.It’s likely you chose your career because you help people, get to be creative and/or enjoy your relationships with clients or co-workers.
That’s what men do when they like you: they try to please and impress you.
That’s one of the best things about dating grownup men – As woman in her 40s, 50s and beyond, it gets harder and harder for men to “wow” you.
Tell him how cool that he has this connection, especially since it set you up to enjoy this lovely restaurant with him.
In other words, acknowledge you’re impressed and thank him for what he’s done for you.
Women like you really turn these guys on, but the key word here is Before he wants smart, he wants female.
If he just wanted smart he’d hang out with the guys at work.
(This will also benefit you everywhere else in your life, btw.) You are on your first date with a new guy.
He takes you to a nice restaurant and you have the best table in the house.
Which is one of many reasons why it’s not surprising that so many woman are identifying as sapiosexual these days. “Sapiosexual” emerged as a new dating buzzword a few years ago, and it’s since taken off — there are now Reddit forums devoted to it, sapiosexual Facebook pages, and it’s even been added as an official sexual orientation by dating sites like OKCupid. A sapiosexual is someone who is attracted to a person’s intellect way more than their body.