Always keep an open mind, don’t worry too much about ‘compatibility’ and you’ll be sure to find some fantastic people; from there it’s all up to you.4.
Be bold and make that first move You’re in control!
Don’t be shy, showcase your interests, avoid clichés and boring descriptions and get down to the real you to stand out from the crowd.3.
Search, Explore & Discover You’re primed and ready to go! There are a number of ways to find your potential dates.
They’ll have the same family values, and you can both look at photos of each other’s grandchildren.
They’ve learned some lessons from past relationships and know what they want.
Some guys will put an older photo on and turn up 3 stone heavier than you expected.
And some guys will spend all evening talking about their ex.
Older guys still think they’re players, especially the fat, bald ugly ones sat in a warden controlled flat with access to a computer who send a message to EVERYONE and then get huffy when you don’t reply. When I first started I replied to everyone, but unfortunately this was a green light to a couple of guys who, let’s just say, got a bit giddy. Chances are he’s living with someone and just seeing what’s on offer.
You might find yourself enjoying a bit of banter on-line with someone, arrange to meet and then at the last minute he might disappear or cancel at the last minute. Or alternatively he could turn up and the witty, cheeky, guy you were having fun with online is an old man wearing a fleece, jogging bottoms and old trainers while you’ve turned up giving Joan Collins a run for her money. Some guys will say they don’t smoke, then turn up smelling like an ashtray.
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