The other type is a victim, blames others and does not take any responsibility.
In your opinion, what are some tips to learn to accept flaws while dating? Some people think when the right person comes along, no work is needed.
One of the first things that I take the reader through in my book is to understand yourself and get to know what works best for you, and also what doesn’t work. I liked that show , where people were put together based on how they looked on paper.
It’s easy for us to go to the extremes and reject people, however.
That was just a quick chapter at the end, but there’s a section for women who are overcoming certain fears.
I talked about “testing” earlier, where a lot of the times we test the other person.
We want the other person to test us, but we’re not thinking “Oh, I want to test this”.
There is also the idealizer, who puts you on a pedestal and sees you as perfect.
The last type is the Don Juan, who is constantly flirting with everyone, whether it’s the waitress, barista or hostess.
He is not just focused on you, but also on other women.