when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.8.
Listen to what she is really saying behind the words and emotion.9. Do whatever it takes to clear your head so that when you are with her you are fully WITH HER. You’re not supposed to be perfect, just try to not be too stupid.14.
Give her space The woman is so good at giving and giving, and sometimes she will need to be reminded to take time to nurture herself.
Focus to the point where you can no longer see anything but love, and you know without a doubt that you are the luckiest man on earth to be have this woman as your wife.5.
It’s not your job to change or fix her Your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing.
You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today.
Change will come, and in that you have to re-choose each other everyday.
And if she changes, love what she becomes, whether it’s what you wanted or not.6. For your own emotions: It’s not your wife’s job to make you happy, and she CAN’T make you sad.
You are responsible for finding your own happiness, and through that your joy will spill over into your relationship and your love.
Don’t worry about money Money is a game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength to win.19.
Forgive immediately..focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past. Holding onto past mistakes that either you or she makes, is like a heavy anchor to your marriage and will hold you back.
Always see the best in her Focus only on what you love. If you focus on what bugs you, all you will see is reasons to be bugged.